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Assume You'll Succeed When You're Planning
Despite what we tell others, deep down many of us think we won't succeed when we try something new. One of the places the assumption of our failure pops up is in the way we think about planning our goals. I've seen it over and over again: people automatically assume that they're going to fail, and most of their plans revolve around preventing failure.
While we all want to be successful, many of us starting planning as if we’re going to fail. We spend a lot of energy and time imagining what failure looks like, so much so that we build a plan that focuses on preventing failure rather than setting up success. The end result is that we choose smaller goals and less ambitious projects that ultimately don’t fulfill us because they never require us to channel the courage and discipline to do what we’re most capable of.
Instead of going that route, assume you'll succeed and then figure out how you're going to do it. While this reframe has a heavily linguistic component to it, it also has an important practical component to it — it makes success the primary consideration. When success is at the forefront of your plans, it makes you think about what success looks like. (Tweet this.) [optin-monster-shortcode id="znsxvmn1dguag6osy1i5"]
Know What Success Looks Like
Not knowing what success looks like is like starting a trip knowing all the places you don’t want to go but having no idea where you do want to go. Consider these three levels of success that I discuss in Start Finishing:
Small Success: Consider a small success as getting the minimum score on a test that’s needed to pass. We’re never proud of accruing them, but a string of small successes done with coherence and intention can lead to much greater success down the line.
Moderate Success: While you may not be shouting from the rooftops about a moderate success, you’re likely to be proud of the outcome. Moderate success is the highest level of success you can achieve with just your own effort, resources, and advantages.
Epic Success: An epic success greatly exceeds the minimum requirements for success and is a “tell your momma” moment. It’s your version of getting on The Oprah Winfrey Show or winning the Super Bowl. Epic success requires you to build a team to help you get there.
Identify the Drag Points
Once you know what success looks like, you can identify all the parts of the plan that will make success less likely — I call these parts drag points because of the way I think about planning. Imagine that your plans are like airplanes; they're designed to get you somewhere. The smoother and more aerodynamic a plane is, the less energy it requires to keep moving. But if it has a lot of places that increase drag, it has to fight against those drag points the whole time. It's a known phenomenon that airplanes have to fight drag, and engineers design planes based around the fact that there is drag. Likewise, many of our plans have their drag points — if we're honest, we know where we're likely to go wrong and what types of things are likely to mess us up. For instance, if you're wanting to write an ebook but know you have trouble organizing your ideas, you need to come up with a plan that addresses that drag point in order to succeed. Note here that you're still not assuming failure: you're assuming you can write the ebook, but to write the ebook, you'll need to do something to overcome the natural drag you'll face.
Be Honest With Yourself
When assessing drag points, it's critical that you're honest with yourself. If you really don't like doing something or you're not very good at it, put that on the board as a drag point. This lets you have an action plan for those points: you can either make a plan for improving your competence or you can figure out ways to minimize the actions you don't want to do. But ignoring the fact that it's there is an invitation for disaster, because, should you succeed, those drag points will become even harder to deal with. The faster you're going, the more you have to fight against drag.
When we start from the assumption that we’ll fail, it’s hard to figure out where to start — after all, whatever we do is not likely to work anyway. But when we start from the assumption that we’ll succeed, and define to what level we plan to succeed, we can identify what we need to do to get moving and what will drag us down. The assumption of success gives motivation, and identifying what needs to happen gives clarity and actionable steps.
Think about your plans. What would be different if you just pretended you would be successful? What is preventing your success, and what can you do about it? And how can you make that success an epic success?
You can always read more about the process from idea to completion in my book, Start Finishing.