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		<title>By: Carla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 22:16:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Deliberate practice isn’t exactly fun and it is time consuming, but it does work.  I have to apply this technique with music, blogging and so on.  I have to focus and dissect, not just “do”.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Carlas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/greenandchic/~3/R5ZyrhmolLk/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Eco Fashion: Do it yourself - Organic Fabric&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Deliberate practice isn’t exactly fun and it is time consuming, but it does work.  I have to apply this technique with music, blogging and so on.  I have to focus and dissect, not just “do”.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Carlas last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/greenandchic/~3/R5ZyrhmolLk/" rel="nofollow">Eco Fashion: Do it yourself &#8211; Organic Fabric</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Jonathan Mead</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonathan Mead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 23:47:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve definitely thought about this a lot. It&#039;s more than just going through the motions. It&#039;s getting mad scientist and modern magician on it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve definitely thought about this a lot. It&#8217;s more than just going through the motions. It&#8217;s getting mad scientist and modern magician on it.</p>
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		<title>By: Charlie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charlie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 22:22:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@JoVE: A roll?! Awesome - I love when the content is building momentum, especially when I intend for things to be linked in certain ways. I really appreciate your feedback on this one.

@David: I always thought I was a slow learner, because it took me a while to read through things. I couldn&#039;t just skim. Turns out that I was just going through the rounds of deliberate practice.

As you mention, every profession has its own deliberate practice techniques. I think that too many people defer to a standard technique, though, not realizing that it has to be tailored to them. It&#039;s hard to make a Top Ten list of things to do to that fits everybody for this reason. It&#039;s also for this reason that coaches are invaluable.

Glad you caught some inspiration - that makes my day!

@Catherine: Thanks - and I should mention that I really liked your post &quot;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.get-sorted.net/2009/02/its-not-how-you-think-its-how-you-think-about-how-you-think.html&quot; title=&quot;Organizing Creative Professionals: Sorted: It&#039;s not how you think, it&#039;s how you think about how you think.&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;It&#039;s not how you think...&lt;/a&gt;.&quot; I&#039;ve been thinking about something similar that I hope to post within the next couple of days, but SXSW is looming near. LOOMING!

@Guy: Right on! I should&#039;ve made that point more explicit than linking to the post before it, but I&#039;m glad you added this to the discussion.

@Mike: Ah, the challenge you bring up is difficult. I hope I can eek out the post that talks more about that. I always love your feedback and insightful nudges.

@Sarah: I&#039;m lovin&#039; the new you, FWIW. And I wish I&#039;d thought of this, but I&#039;m merely the messenger on this one. The fact that you were doing it unconsciously is a bit on the awesome side because you weren&#039;t cognizant of the fact that you were practicing. Sometimes just knowing we&#039;re pushing ourselves can, strangely, make us resistant to pushing ourselves. Keep at it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@JoVE: A roll?! Awesome &#8211; I love when the content is building momentum, especially when I intend for things to be linked in certain ways. I really appreciate your feedback on this one.</p>
<p>@David: I always thought I was a slow learner, because it took me a while to read through things. I couldn&#8217;t just skim. Turns out that I was just going through the rounds of deliberate practice.</p>
<p>As you mention, every profession has its own deliberate practice techniques. I think that too many people defer to a standard technique, though, not realizing that it has to be tailored to them. It&#8217;s hard to make a Top Ten list of things to do to that fits everybody for this reason. It&#8217;s also for this reason that coaches are invaluable.</p>
<p>Glad you caught some inspiration &#8211; that makes my day!</p>
<p>@Catherine: Thanks &#8211; and I should mention that I really liked your post &#8220;<a href="http://www.get-sorted.net/2009/02/its-not-how-you-think-its-how-you-think-about-how-you-think.html" title="Organizing Creative Professionals: Sorted: It's not how you think, it's how you think about how you think." rel="nofollow">It&#8217;s not how you think&#8230;</a>.&#8221; I&#8217;ve been thinking about something similar that I hope to post within the next couple of days, but SXSW is looming near. LOOMING!</p>
<p>@Guy: Right on! I should&#8217;ve made that point more explicit than linking to the post before it, but I&#8217;m glad you added this to the discussion.</p>
<p>@Mike: Ah, the challenge you bring up is difficult. I hope I can eek out the post that talks more about that. I always love your feedback and insightful nudges.</p>
<p>@Sarah: I&#8217;m lovin&#8217; the new you, FWIW. And I wish I&#8217;d thought of this, but I&#8217;m merely the messenger on this one. The fact that you were doing it unconsciously is a bit on the awesome side because you weren&#8217;t cognizant of the fact that you were practicing. Sometimes just knowing we&#8217;re pushing ourselves can, strangely, make us resistant to pushing ourselves. Keep at it!</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Marie Lacy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah Marie Lacy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 21:49:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh this is genius! Damn.

I&#039;ve often wondered about this - I could never understand why I was better than artists who were much older than me and liked to tell me that they&#039;d been painting for 45 years. Great, I&#039;d think, so why do you still suck? (Wow, I sound incredibly vain. I&#039;m not. I&#039;m just honest.) I&#039;m not a brilliant painter yet, but I&#039;m good for my age. I do this on a regular basis, but just never realized it. It wasn&#039;t conscious.

Now that I know what it is, I can consciously recreate it to push myself and my art further.&lt;i&gt; Awesome. &lt;/i&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh this is genius! Damn.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve often wondered about this &#8211; I could never understand why I was better than artists who were much older than me and liked to tell me that they&#8217;d been painting for 45 years. Great, I&#8217;d think, so why do you still suck? (Wow, I sound incredibly vain. I&#8217;m not. I&#8217;m just honest.) I&#8217;m not a brilliant painter yet, but I&#8217;m good for my age. I do this on a regular basis, but just never realized it. It wasn&#8217;t conscious.</p>
<p>Now that I know what it is, I can consciously recreate it to push myself and my art further.<i> Awesome. </i></p>
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		<title>By: Mike Stankavich</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Stankavich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 17:48:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Charlie, my key takeaway from this post came from the small aside about not allowing practice to kill the muse.  I see a big challenge in both calibrating the difficulty level, i.e. how hard you are stretching your capability beyond your current ability, and in balancing focus on the act of practice versus focus on your muse.   

I noted that you hint at structuring your practice objectives prior to actually producing, and then using the practice as a refining/editing activity after the initial creation.  I like where you are going with this latest series of posts, and I hope that you have further inspiration to share.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Charlie, my key takeaway from this post came from the small aside about not allowing practice to kill the muse.  I see a big challenge in both calibrating the difficulty level, i.e. how hard you are stretching your capability beyond your current ability, and in balancing focus on the act of practice versus focus on your muse.   </p>
<p>I noted that you hint at structuring your practice objectives prior to actually producing, and then using the practice as a refining/editing activity after the initial creation.  I like where you are going with this latest series of posts, and I hope that you have further inspiration to share.</p>
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		<title>By: guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 11:25:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>constant feedback must play an essential role, no use practicing badly...

Execellent post.
Thankyou.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;guys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.myonepieceofadvice.co.uk/2009/03/all-fun-and-games-until-someone-loses-an-eye/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;All fun and games until someone loses an eye&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>constant feedback must play an essential role, no use practicing badly&#8230;</p>
<p>Execellent post.<br />
Thankyou.</p>
<p><abbr><em>guys last blog post..<a href="http://www.myonepieceofadvice.co.uk/2009/03/all-fun-and-games-until-someone-loses-an-eye/" rel="nofollow">All fun and games until someone loses an eye</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Pages tagged "lifehacks"</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pages tagged "lifehacks"</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] bookmarks tagged lifehacks What Makes You Better?&#160;saved by 2 others  &#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;rokensk8erboi bookmarked on 03/08/09 &#124; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] bookmarks tagged lifehacks What Makes You Better?&nbsp;saved by 2 others  &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;rokensk8erboi bookmarked on 03/08/09 | [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Catherine Cantieri, Sorted</title>
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		<dc:creator>Catherine Cantieri, Sorted</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 01:52:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post! I especially liked the instruction about *how* to read other authors&#039; (artists&#039;, coders&#039;, etc.) work and truly learn from it. I&#039;ll definitely keep this advice in mind.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Catherine Cantieri, Sorteds last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.get-sorted.net/2009/03/when-was-the-last-time-you-backed-up-your-data.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;When was the last time you backed up your data?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post! I especially liked the instruction about *how* to read other authors&#8217; (artists&#8217;, coders&#8217;, etc.) work and truly learn from it. I&#8217;ll definitely keep this advice in mind.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Catherine Cantieri, Sorteds last blog post..<a href="http://www.get-sorted.net/2009/03/when-was-the-last-time-you-backed-up-your-data.html" rel="nofollow">When was the last time you backed up your data?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: David Dittell</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Dittell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 02:56:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Charlie,

Couldn&#039;t agree more.  I try to do this on my blog, by having recurring features that help me improve my writing (comparing features vs. benefits, learning the word of the day).  I also do this in my fiction writing exactly as you describe.  Being clear and concise is always a struggle, so I find myself rewriting with that very goal in mind -- your example could not be more spot on, and I think that goes beyond just me.

There are so many examples -- athletes who spend their summers working on specific skills improve more than those who play pickup games; great writers have often said they&#039;ve typed verbatim a work from an author they admired in order to understand what they were doing when they wrote it.

In my personal life, I read books through a book club with friends, and I&#039;m always the last to finish because I&#039;m the only writer -- I pore over the words, reread sections, consult the dictionary, etc.  It can be aggravating to be behind, but I learn so much I wouldn&#039;t change a thing.

Thank you so much for this article, Charlie; it managed to re-inspire me after a long day of writing.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;David Dittells last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://alphabetsoupkitchen.blogspot.com/2009/03/unemployed-writers-guide-on-how-to-cook.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Unemployed Writer&#039;s Guide On How To Cook: What To Do With Leftovers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Charlie,</p>
<p>Couldn&#8217;t agree more.  I try to do this on my blog, by having recurring features that help me improve my writing (comparing features vs. benefits, learning the word of the day).  I also do this in my fiction writing exactly as you describe.  Being clear and concise is always a struggle, so I find myself rewriting with that very goal in mind &#8212; your example could not be more spot on, and I think that goes beyond just me.</p>
<p>There are so many examples &#8212; athletes who spend their summers working on specific skills improve more than those who play pickup games; great writers have often said they&#8217;ve typed verbatim a work from an author they admired in order to understand what they were doing when they wrote it.</p>
<p>In my personal life, I read books through a book club with friends, and I&#8217;m always the last to finish because I&#8217;m the only writer &#8212; I pore over the words, reread sections, consult the dictionary, etc.  It can be aggravating to be behind, but I learn so much I wouldn&#8217;t change a thing.</p>
<p>Thank you so much for this article, Charlie; it managed to re-inspire me after a long day of writing.</p>
<p><abbr><em>David Dittells last blog post..<a href="http://alphabetsoupkitchen.blogspot.com/2009/03/unemployed-writers-guide-on-how-to-cook.html" rel="nofollow">The Unemployed Writer&#8217;s Guide On How To Cook: What To Do With Leftovers</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: JoVE</title>
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		<dc:creator>JoVE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 13:58:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are on a roll! This is an excellent post. So much to think about.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are on a roll! This is an excellent post. So much to think about.</p>
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