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		<title>By: Susie</title>
		<link>http://www.productiveflourishing.com/stop-checking-email/comment-page-1/#comment-8536</link>
		<dc:creator>Susie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 06:13:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,

I found your site through your guest post on Sonia who I found on twitter. (convoluted but hey ho that&#039;s the internet a bunch of treasure hunts)

Anyway-I wanted to say that the constant emailing checking is distracting. It does help to give yourself a set amount of times a day to check with a set timer for making you stop. (kind of a flylady technique: www.flylady.net )

Thanks for an intersting post and interesting website.</description>
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<p>I found your site through your guest post on Sonia who I found on twitter. (convoluted but hey ho that&#8217;s the internet a bunch of treasure hunts)</p>
<p>Anyway-I wanted to say that the constant emailing checking is distracting. It does help to give yourself a set amount of times a day to check with a set timer for making you stop. (kind of a flylady technique: <a href="http://www.flylady.net" rel="nofollow">http://www.flylady.net</a> )</p>
<p>Thanks for an intersting post and interesting website.</p>
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		<title>By: Are you a multitasking junkie?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Are you a multitasking junkie?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 19:04:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Laura at the Journal of Cultural Conversation</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura at the Journal of Cultural Conversation</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 14:31:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Charlie - just found this post and, yes, I am an email/Twitter/web addict. I get sucked into the vortex and often can&#039;t get out! I like your point about processing messages...I&#039;m definitely going to have to take some of this advice to organize myself better. Thank you!
.-= Laura at the Journal of Cultural Conversation´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thejcconline.com/2009/08/reflections-of-road-warrior.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Reflections Of A Road Warrior&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Charlie &#8211; just found this post and, yes, I am an email/Twitter/web addict. I get sucked into the vortex and often can&#8217;t get out! I like your point about processing messages&#8230;I&#8217;m definitely going to have to take some of this advice to organize myself better. Thank you!<br />
.-= Laura at the Journal of Cultural Conversation´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.thejcconline.com/2009/08/reflections-of-road-warrior.html" rel="nofollow">Reflections Of A Road Warrior</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Jason Cohen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason Cohen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 18:55:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s true: Closing your email client is one of the easiest, best ways to immediately become more productive.

As for the case of working in an environment where receiving timely emails is important: Use multiple accounts OR use filters to separate sources that are typically timely from everything else.  Surely you can check personal email much less frequently, for example.  Or you need email from your boss quickly but from co-workers less quickly.  Or you need email from a key group of 5 people involved with your project.
.-= Jason Cohen´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/smartbear/~3/w3oIHBLbjUI/90-minute-podcast-on-creative-marketing.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;90-minute podcast on creative marketing&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s true: Closing your email client is one of the easiest, best ways to immediately become more productive.</p>
<p>As for the case of working in an environment where receiving timely emails is important: Use multiple accounts OR use filters to separate sources that are typically timely from everything else.  Surely you can check personal email much less frequently, for example.  Or you need email from your boss quickly but from co-workers less quickly.  Or you need email from a key group of 5 people involved with your project.<br />
.-= Jason Cohen´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/smartbear/~3/w3oIHBLbjUI/90-minute-podcast-on-creative-marketing.html" rel="nofollow">90-minute podcast on creative marketing</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Charlie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charlie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 18:02:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@kat: I see this post triggered a few of your frustrations, especially since your objections don&#039;t address the content or intentions of this post.

Let&#039;s take a look at this.

I asked: &quot;What’s in there that will really make a difference to what you’re doing for the day?&quot;

In your case, something in there &lt;em&gt;really&lt;/em&gt; might change what you&#039;re doing for the day. A student might need to drop by; one of your peers may want to drop by and chat for a bit; one of your guest speakers needs to bail and you need to plan to cover for them. All good things to know as they come up.

If your job is customer service - which seems to be the expectations of you, your students, and your institution- then to be effective is to provide timely customer service. There may be more efficient ways to be effective in your case, but if your &quot;job&quot; really is to check email...then check away, presuming you want to keep your job.

Also, this post was about how we &lt;em&gt;think&lt;/em&gt; about the process of checking email. I&#039;m recommending moving beyond random checking so that you can be in the driver&#039;s seat of your time and attention; if you&#039;re intentionally looking for information at times you determine rather than apprehensively and reactively seeing what&#039;s in there, you&#039;re not &lt;em&gt;really&lt;/em&gt; &quot;checking email.&quot;

&quot;Do what works for you&quot; is one of my guiding principles and is what I help my clients and readers do, so I find it a bit odd that you&#039;re in disagreement with me. Perhaps the deeper frustration is that what you&#039;re &quot;required&quot; to do really isn&#039;t working for you? I don&#039;t know enough about your situation to say, but again, something was triggered here. I also find it interesting that your conclusions are &quot;live and let live&quot; and &quot;stop preaching!,&quot; yet your tone and content seems to be counter to those very suggestions.

It was not my intention to make anyone feel guilty or &quot;to preach&quot; - although if doing so made someone pause, just for a second, and helped her think about what&#039;s working for her and what&#039;s not, I&#039;m fine with that. So I guess I&#039;ll end with this: I may have been the target of your frustration, but was I the source of your frustration?

p.s. I&#039;ve taught college courses. I&#039;m a coach. Our realities are not that different. I&#039;m open to start over and try again. How about you?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@kat: I see this post triggered a few of your frustrations, especially since your objections don&#8217;t address the content or intentions of this post.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take a look at this.</p>
<p>I asked: &#8220;What’s in there that will really make a difference to what you’re doing for the day?&#8221;</p>
<p>In your case, something in there <em>really</em> might change what you&#8217;re doing for the day. A student might need to drop by; one of your peers may want to drop by and chat for a bit; one of your guest speakers needs to bail and you need to plan to cover for them. All good things to know as they come up.</p>
<p>If your job is customer service &#8211; which seems to be the expectations of you, your students, and your institution- then to be effective is to provide timely customer service. There may be more efficient ways to be effective in your case, but if your &#8220;job&#8221; really is to check email&#8230;then check away, presuming you want to keep your job.</p>
<p>Also, this post was about how we <em>think</em> about the process of checking email. I&#8217;m recommending moving beyond random checking so that you can be in the driver&#8217;s seat of your time and attention; if you&#8217;re intentionally looking for information at times you determine rather than apprehensively and reactively seeing what&#8217;s in there, you&#8217;re not <em>really</em> &#8220;checking email.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Do what works for you&#8221; is one of my guiding principles and is what I help my clients and readers do, so I find it a bit odd that you&#8217;re in disagreement with me. Perhaps the deeper frustration is that what you&#8217;re &#8220;required&#8221; to do really isn&#8217;t working for you? I don&#8217;t know enough about your situation to say, but again, something was triggered here. I also find it interesting that your conclusions are &#8220;live and let live&#8221; and &#8220;stop preaching!,&#8221; yet your tone and content seems to be counter to those very suggestions.</p>
<p>It was not my intention to make anyone feel guilty or &#8220;to preach&#8221; &#8211; although if doing so made someone pause, just for a second, and helped her think about what&#8217;s working for her and what&#8217;s not, I&#8217;m fine with that. So I guess I&#8217;ll end with this: I may have been the target of your frustration, but was I the source of your frustration?</p>
<p>p.s. I&#8217;ve taught college courses. I&#8217;m a coach. Our realities are not that different. I&#8217;m open to start over and try again. How about you?</p>
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		<title>By: kat</title>
		<link>http://www.productiveflourishing.com/stop-checking-email/comment-page-1/#comment-3649</link>
		<dc:creator>kat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 15:25:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>easy to say, but some of us have jobs where email is the main way people reach us. I am a college professor and most of my students contact me ONLY be email. And at all hours of the day/night. They assume I am on a lot and my school encourages that attitude.  So can I get by with checking email twice a day?  Sure - if I want to get fired, I could.

Perhaps people can stop making others feel guilty about the way they handle technology -- how about this as a mantra?  Do what works for you and some of you -- stop preaching at the rest of us who handle technology differently!  Wow, what a concept - live and let life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>easy to say, but some of us have jobs where email is the main way people reach us. I am a college professor and most of my students contact me ONLY be email. And at all hours of the day/night. They assume I am on a lot and my school encourages that attitude.  So can I get by with checking email twice a day?  Sure &#8211; if I want to get fired, I could.</p>
<p>Perhaps people can stop making others feel guilty about the way they handle technology &#8212; how about this as a mantra?  Do what works for you and some of you &#8212; stop preaching at the rest of us who handle technology differently!  Wow, what a concept &#8211; live and let life.</p>
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		<title>By: Pace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 19:32:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Charlie: I&#039;ve tried choosing a few Really Important Tasks/Projects and letting my inbox just accumulate, but I&#039;ve found that my stress level builds up to unmanageable levels if I do that.  Whenever I look at my inbox, I feel like each one represents someone expecting something of me, a friend I&#039;m letting down, an obligation I&#039;ve committed to that I&#039;m reneging on, or a deadline I&#039;m running late on.  I know that some of this is &quot;just in my head&quot; and that others&#039; expectations of me are usually less than my expectations of myself, but I haven&#039;t yet figured out how to manage my stress levels.

So I bow to King Inbox and pay him homage, and he rewards me with the gift of inner peace. (:
.-= Pace´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://freakrevolution.com/2009/07/24/how-i-overcame-my-fear-of-running-out-of-money/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How I overcame my fear of running out of money&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Charlie: I&#8217;ve tried choosing a few Really Important Tasks/Projects and letting my inbox just accumulate, but I&#8217;ve found that my stress level builds up to unmanageable levels if I do that.  Whenever I look at my inbox, I feel like each one represents someone expecting something of me, a friend I&#8217;m letting down, an obligation I&#8217;ve committed to that I&#8217;m reneging on, or a deadline I&#8217;m running late on.  I know that some of this is &#8220;just in my head&#8221; and that others&#8217; expectations of me are usually less than my expectations of myself, but I haven&#8217;t yet figured out how to manage my stress levels.</p>
<p>So I bow to King Inbox and pay him homage, and he rewards me with the gift of inner peace. (:<br />
.-= Pace´s last blog ..<a href="http://freakrevolution.com/2009/07/24/how-i-overcame-my-fear-of-running-out-of-money/" rel="nofollow">How I overcame my fear of running out of money</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Beth Dargis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beth Dargis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 15:38:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know these times seem a little wacky: 11:00, 2:00, 3:30, 6:45. That&#039;s because I woke up an hour late.

Normally it&#039;s 10:00 after getting important writing done. 1:00 after lunch. 3:30 because that&#039;s right before I quit for the day. And 7:00 for personal email.
.-= Beth Dargis´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.mysimplerlife.com/blog/?p=1610&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Seeing with New Eyes or Boggle Anyone?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know these times seem a little wacky: 11:00, 2:00, 3:30, 6:45. That&#8217;s because I woke up an hour late.</p>
<p>Normally it&#8217;s 10:00 after getting important writing done. 1:00 after lunch. 3:30 because that&#8217;s right before I quit for the day. And 7:00 for personal email.<br />
.-= Beth Dargis´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.mysimplerlife.com/blog/?p=1610" rel="nofollow">Seeing with New Eyes or Boggle Anyone?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Charlie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charlie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 15:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Naomi: I wanted to share a bit of what I said in my email to you with everyone. As I said there, an unintended consequence of having Very Timely Responses is that it begins a relationship that may be more counterproductive in the long run. Your clients expect a quick response, so they may change their communication patterns such that you&#039;re now both in the situation in which you&#039;re checking email waiting for the other to reply or seeing if the other hasn&#039;t sent you something. Fundamentally, though, email correspondence isn&#039;t really the meaningful work for either one of you, yet it&#039;s how you&#039;re actually spending your time.

I&#039;ll be writing more about this very soon.

@Nick: I think the problem with email is that it the habit works below the level of cognition. I hope to post about this later today, so maybe it&#039;ll make more sense.

@Jared: I&#039;ve been waiting to hear about the new AwayFind, Jared. And thanks for the encouragement - I have a lot more in the pipes about email.

@Pace: &lt;blockquote&gt;Do you have any advice for dealing with this sort of inbox stress?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Yes, I do. After writing this post, I realized I have a lot more to say, but briefly - there&#039;s way too much value put on an empty Inbox. We confuse being clear about what we need to do with having an empty Inbox, when in fact it&#039;s easy to separate the two.

Let me ask it this way: if you had to choose between doing a few Really Important Tasks/Projects and having a clear Inbox, which would you choose?

What if it turns out that our relationship to email is such that, though we would choose Really Important Stuff every time, in the moment, we subordinate Really Important Stuff to having a clear Inbox?

So, yeah, I&#039;ve got more coming.

@Beth: I&#039;m curious - why those times?

@Catherine: I&#039;ve been in those organizations. I&#039;ve also been in an organization that did the same thing via phone or radio. Both had the same effect: we spent more time waiting for the call than doing what we were supposed to be doing.

Thanks for your feedback about email and messages - sometimes I worry that I&#039;m too big of a stickler for people to stand, but in practice there is a difference.

@J.D: You&#039;re on it, man! Generally, I process it late morning, after lunch, and towards the end of the day, although here recently I&#039;ve been checking it more as things have been in flux. Yet I&#039;ve still noted how little difference it makes to what I&#039;m doing - so I&#039;m going back to processing it less frequently.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Naomi: I wanted to share a bit of what I said in my email to you with everyone. As I said there, an unintended consequence of having Very Timely Responses is that it begins a relationship that may be more counterproductive in the long run. Your clients expect a quick response, so they may change their communication patterns such that you&#8217;re now both in the situation in which you&#8217;re checking email waiting for the other to reply or seeing if the other hasn&#8217;t sent you something. Fundamentally, though, email correspondence isn&#8217;t really the meaningful work for either one of you, yet it&#8217;s how you&#8217;re actually spending your time.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be writing more about this very soon.</p>
<p>@Nick: I think the problem with email is that it the habit works below the level of cognition. I hope to post about this later today, so maybe it&#8217;ll make more sense.</p>
<p>@Jared: I&#8217;ve been waiting to hear about the new AwayFind, Jared. And thanks for the encouragement &#8211; I have a lot more in the pipes about email.</p>
<p>@Pace:<br />
<blockquote>Do you have any advice for dealing with this sort of inbox stress?</p></blockquote>
<p>Yes, I do. After writing this post, I realized I have a lot more to say, but briefly &#8211; there&#8217;s way too much value put on an empty Inbox. We confuse being clear about what we need to do with having an empty Inbox, when in fact it&#8217;s easy to separate the two.</p>
<p>Let me ask it this way: if you had to choose between doing a few Really Important Tasks/Projects and having a clear Inbox, which would you choose?</p>
<p>What if it turns out that our relationship to email is such that, though we would choose Really Important Stuff every time, in the moment, we subordinate Really Important Stuff to having a clear Inbox?</p>
<p>So, yeah, I&#8217;ve got more coming.</p>
<p>@Beth: I&#8217;m curious &#8211; why those times?</p>
<p>@Catherine: I&#8217;ve been in those organizations. I&#8217;ve also been in an organization that did the same thing via phone or radio. Both had the same effect: we spent more time waiting for the call than doing what we were supposed to be doing.</p>
<p>Thanks for your feedback about email and messages &#8211; sometimes I worry that I&#8217;m too big of a stickler for people to stand, but in practice there is a difference.</p>
<p>@J.D: You&#8217;re on it, man! Generally, I process it late morning, after lunch, and towards the end of the day, although here recently I&#8217;ve been checking it more as things have been in flux. Yet I&#8217;ve still noted how little difference it makes to what I&#8217;m doing &#8211; so I&#8217;m going back to processing it less frequently.</p>
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		<title>By: Andauernd E-Mails checken lenkt ab &#171; r.o.b&#8217;s Kellerclubcast</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andauernd E-Mails checken lenkt ab &#171; r.o.b&#8217;s Kellerclubcast</dc:creator>
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