How to Flourish: 17 Quotes On Living, Being, and Doing

by Charlie Gilkey on November 20, 2009

I’ll step out of the way and let the quotes speak for themselves:

“Fall seven times; stand up eight.” – Japanese proverb

“You must give up the life you planned in order to have the life that is waiting for you.” – Joseph Campbell

“The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. The second best time is now.” – Chinese Proverb

“You must be the change you want to see in the world.” – Gandhi

“Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.” – Theodore Roosevelt

“I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.” – Jimmy Dean

“All is flux, nothing stays still.” – Heraclitus

“For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.

“I am tomorrow, or some future day, what I establish today. I am today what I established yesterday or some previous day.” – James Joyce

“I don’t need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better.” – Plutarch

“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.” – Epicurus

“Be a first rate version of yourself, not a second rate version of someone else” – Judy Garland

“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” – Anne Frank

“The mind can make a heaven out of hell or a hell out of heaven” – John Milton

“Try not to become a man of success but a man of value.” – Albert Einstein

“The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet.” – James Oppenheim

Want more? Check out the second volume of quotes at How to Flourish: 22 More Quotes on Living, Being, and Doing.

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Steven Handel November 20, 2009 at 8:54 pm

These are all so amazing and thought-provoking! I tweeted this post as a thanks for putting this together.
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Carl November 20, 2009 at 11:00 pm

Thanks for these Charlie. I may write a post around each individual quote.
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Craig November 21, 2009 at 5:38 am

Wonderful! You’ve done a masterful job curating this list.

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Laura Cococcia November 21, 2009 at 12:08 pm

Wonderful, Charlie. I just printed them out and put them on my fridge. Love the Anne Frank one – probably my favorite. Have a fantastic day!
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Bamboo Forest - PunIntended November 23, 2009 at 10:02 am

Nice, inspirational quotes. Thank you.

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Alenchik November 23, 2009 at 10:25 am

Thank you, these are awesome! I just want to share 2 that I really love although not sure who they are by:
1. There’s no place you can be that isn’t where you’re meant to be.
2.Will the boy of yesterday respect the man of tomorrow!
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Amy Harrison November 23, 2009 at 10:50 am

Lovely quotes.

A fave of mine is: “You are what you choose today, not what you’ve chosen before” – Dr. Wayne Dyer (guy’s a genius :-) )
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Scott September 7, 2010 at 9:31 pm

I too love that quote…it’s so true.:)

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FeedTheRightWolf November 23, 2009 at 4:28 pm

Very inspirational, just what I needed.
Thank You!
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Amanda November 23, 2009 at 5:59 pm

These are all such great quotes!

With Thanksgiving coming up I’ve been thinking about everything that I am grateful for and this quote is really quite perfect for this week:

“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.” – Epicurus

Thank you so much for sharing! I will be sure to syndicate! :)
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Dexter(QuoteGuy) November 23, 2009 at 8:37 pm

Great set of quotes. Keep sharing. Many Blessings!

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Bengt November 24, 2009 at 12:24 am

A great collection of quotes but the first one (“Fall seven times; stand up eight.” – Japanese proverb) does not make sense to me. How can anyone stand up more times than they fall?

I like this one:“ Those who stand for nothing fall for anything.” Alexander Hamilton

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John November 26, 2009 at 4:50 pm

Hi Bengt, It means they got up again, in other words don’t ever give up.
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Bengt November 27, 2009 at 1:31 am

Hi John,
That quote is about not giving up but the numbers still don’t add up. Fall seven and stand up eight does not make sense. Fall seven and get up seven is the best you can do, then you end up standing.
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Florin - Infinite Journey November 27, 2009 at 12:59 pm

maybe it has something to do with learning from your mistakes. I bet that’s what it meant.
love the quotes, but the Gandhi quote is the most inspiring

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dogsonfire November 28, 2009 at 1:59 am

You stand up first, you don’t fall first!

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St. John February 3, 2010 at 10:15 pm

Yeah guys… you have to be standing to fall. Therefore, as long as you are standing, you’ve stood once more times than fallen.

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Sean December 27, 2009 at 7:48 pm

I thought that too. Though I can see the meaning (“one step back, two steps forward”), it just dosen’t add up. How do you stand up when you’re already standing?

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Trina November 14, 2010 at 4:24 pm

You weren’t born on your feet…

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Charlie December 27, 2009 at 7:58 pm

A quick clarification on the math here. You have to stand up the first time, so that counts as one.

This diagram is rough, but it’ll show the point:

^= Stand Up
v= Fall

1^ – 1v – 2^- 2v – 3^ – 3v – 4^- 4v – 5^ – 5v – 6^ – 6v – 7^ – 7v – 8^

So, there are 7 v’s and 8 ^’s – or…fall seven times, stand up eight times.

It ends on “stand up” to stress the importance of continual effort to endure through past failures.

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Bengt December 28, 2009 at 2:03 am

We start with different assumptions. Charlie assumes the first action is standing up (how did you get down and why don’t you count that fall?) while I assume we start standing which is the normal position.

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Charlie December 28, 2009 at 8:06 am

While standing may be our “normal” position, we don’t start that way.

At a given point in time, we each learned to stand up. How did we get down? We came from the womb unable to stand – in that sense, we’re down. It’s not a fall because we were never up to start with.

However normal standing may be for us, it’s an action that requires a choice and effort. After all, it’s going counter to gravity. The fact that we don’t think about it – and that it’s a small choice followed by a small effort – doesn’t negate either the choice or the effort.

Details aside, the meaning of the saying is more important.

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Megan February 4, 2010 at 12:05 pm

I think it’s hilarious how caught up in the details every gets.

What’s even funnier, is this Japanese proverb makes twenty times more sense than most from that culture.

We westerners are silly. It reminds me of that story (parable perhaps?) where you have an American person and a Japanese person, both looking at a fish tank. When asked to describe what they see, the American describes the fish, and the Japanese person describes the tank.

Not really related, but sort of interesting.
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Kori June 5, 2010 at 4:32 pm

I don’t believe that it is meant to be taken in a literal way. It is an inspirational quote encouraging us to go beyond what we think we can do.

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Rally April 1, 2010 at 10:08 pm

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Necati April 23, 2010 at 1:34 pm

My all time favorite is “Become who you are”. It turns out that it is from Pindar but it is Nietzsche who built up on it with his concept of “amor fati”.

It makes a lot more sense than all the “you can become whatever you want” creed that seems to be trend in the last decade.

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James August 13, 2010 at 2:20 pm

Word. Become who you are is a much better expression that become whatever you want. Too many kids grow up thinking that they can all be astronauts or president. The reality being that it’s probably not going to happen. We set our kids up for failure by telling them that they can be whatever they want to be. As Judge Smales says in Caddyshack, “The world needs ditch diggers.”.

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Joyful May 17, 2010 at 6:15 am

Very interesting. Some fantastic quotes there.
“Be a first rate version of yourself, not a second rate version of someone else” – Judy Garland. That is one of my favorites.
Thanks so much for sharing!

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Phyllis Nichols May 17, 2010 at 9:33 am

The Roosevelt quote really sums things up for me. Someone mentioned it yesterday to me as well. Kind of amazing I’m seeing it again today!

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ChristiaanH - Mind the Beginner May 17, 2010 at 10:30 am

Brilliant quotes here, because of my background I particularly like the Chinese proverb.

For almost anything in life there is always a better time to do it that has long gone. The art is to identify those moments as they happen. A rare skill…

Thanks!

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tobias June 3, 2010 at 3:39 pm

“I don’t need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better.” – Plutarch

(… except when the sun stops shining, at which point a friend is a good thing to have.)

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Julie-Inspired to Write June 15, 2010 at 7:50 pm

Wow – these are great! I have seen some of them, but a few that I never seen! Thanks for the inspiration!

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sir jorge June 26, 2010 at 4:04 pm

that’s definitely food for thought

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MJ July 15, 2010 at 10:35 pm

Referencing the first one…if you fall seven times…wouldn’t it only be possible to get up seven times? You cannot stand without having fell, therefore, fall seven times, get up seven. Just saying.

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demmi July 27, 2010 at 9:57 pm

Remember that it is metaphorical…not literally “standing” and “falling”, but anyway…
suppose that S=standing and f=falling…

SfSfSfSfSfSfSfS

You “stand” 8 times and “fall” 7! You start out on a high note, and keep picking yourself back up even after downfalls.

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Marty December 22, 2010 at 5:11 pm

Falling is a metaphor for failing. “Fail 7 times, try 8.”

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Adam Ouirdi July 27, 2010 at 11:58 am

Wonderful quotes!

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sir jorge July 27, 2010 at 12:54 pm

not half bad

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Scott Craig July 27, 2010 at 6:55 pm

About the seven times quote, I’d like to offer a little insight. It is actually a quote from Dogen Zenji, a fifth century Zen master. I heard it referenced in a Dharma discourse about perseverance. It is about an attitude of mind; it is not a literal mathematical equation. True perseverance is getting up more than we are knocked down, even if that does not make logical sense.

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coder99 August 1, 2010 at 10:35 pm

very good

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Rockman August 5, 2010 at 10:11 pm

“No one is going to hit as hard as life. Life will beat you to your knees and it will keep you there permanently if you allow it. It’s not how hard you can hit. It’s how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done.” -Rocky Balboa

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Peter | notebook vergleich August 6, 2010 at 3:21 am

七転び八起き – “Fall seven times; stand up eight.”

This is my describes my life philosophy very well.

In the original Japanese sense: if you fail or bad things happen, you can grow stronger.

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Santhosh Raviendranath August 20, 2010 at 9:04 am

This is the best one I have seen … thanks for this … “Be a first rate version of yourself, not a second rate version of someone else” – Judy Garland

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teamcurtisfamily September 1, 2010 at 4:45 pm

This was the one that hit home, “You must give up the life you planned in order to have the life that is waiting for you.” – Joseph Campbell

There is no way we could have predicted, or chose, the life experience we have had over the past 4 years. However, I wouldn’t go back and change a thing now!

Blessings,
Ron

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Charmaine the incredibles gal September 2, 2010 at 3:31 am

Incredibles . Wise sayings and very enlightening.

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Chris September 4, 2010 at 7:18 am

“Dream as if you’ll live forever, Live as if you’ll die today.” James Dean.

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Juanita September 24, 2010 at 4:05 pm

We all have fallen many times even though standing is vital life causes crash an burn.

Life is a lesson learned so sleeping at the wheel will cause no growth just you being a crash test dummy.

If there is a quote not understood it is most likely the person is lacking knowledge or experience.

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Daily Success Place October 5, 2010 at 11:58 am

Gandhi’s quote, ““You must be the change you want to see in the world” is one of my life quotes.

It’s better to be something than to talk about it. Great quotes Charlie.
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Taylor October 13, 2010 at 12:12 am
Jose Daniel October 25, 2010 at 3:05 pm

One of my favorites…

“Best things in life aren’t things”

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San Jose Wedding Officiant October 25, 2010 at 11:42 pm

Great quotes. A few well spoken or written words can truly inspire.

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Best Self Help November 26, 2010 at 2:56 am

Fabulous quotes, lets here some more soon, best wishes to all…

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treehugger November 26, 2010 at 6:05 am

“The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet.” – James Oppenheim >> if you listen to yourself and not others.
The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance (trying to get free stuff in the future); the wise grows it under his feet (can’t afford stuff to dream like the above). >> follow the herd.

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Fashion Man January 27, 2011 at 1:02 am

Love Einstein quotes….. Nice List.

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Nick April 7, 2011 at 1:59 pm

Who doesn’t love a good quote? The Gandhi quote might be used often but doesn’t weaken it’s power. So powerful.

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Bruce Audretsch April 12, 2011 at 11:04 pm

Thanks Charlie.

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CindyFonner April 22, 2011 at 7:50 pm

Excellent and thought provoking! I’m going to keep this list close to the monitor so I can check it out often!

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Rich April 23, 2011 at 11:54 am

Great site! I’ll visit this often to get some inspiration. We all can use daily inspirations on flourishing.

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Sotiris August 8, 2011 at 10:00 am

All is flux, nothing stays still
So if flux flux everything stays still

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ains_leigh December 14, 2011 at 8:29 pm

Love this collection of quotations. Thanks!

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Newborn Photography Props April 27, 2013 at 6:57 am

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on Quotes. Regards
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